Henry Kitiabi longed to grow and be challenged in his Christian faith as he was when he lived in Kenya.
โI attribute my foundation in Christ to these two brothers who were a part of the Fellowship of Christian Unions campus ministry in Kenya,โ Henry says. โThey would be at my door at 5 a.m. to help me wake up and go for morning prayer organized by this ministry. They gave me the basics for reading Godโs Word, prayer, and fasting. They would call and text me until I was firm in my relationship with Jesus and could start discipling others.โ
When he moved to Athens, Georgia, he wanted to continue his spiritual growth and mentoring others, while completing his Ph.D in Public Health at the University of Georgia (UGA). A friend introduced him to Sam Manthi who is also from Kenya and pursuing a Ph.D. in Horticulture at UGA.
Sam knew what it was like to be in a different country and culture. He had been there, but quickly connected with Dustin Butler, a Navigators staff and Associate Director of the Noblemen, a ministry focused on godly manhood and how to live that out in all aspects of their lives. Dustin discipled Sam and encouraged him to invest in someone else when Henry came along.
Sam invited Henry to join the Noblemen. This became a group where Henry could once again be encouraged and challenged in his Christian faith.
โThis group renewed me,โ Henry says. โIโm grateful to benefit from discipleship through Dustin and Sam.โ
All three men recognize the ways discipleship transforms their lives.
Intentionally Leading Your Family
Henry is a new father to a baby boy, Sam has a 3-year-old son, and Dustin has two young children. With busy schedules, they each realize how important it is to intentionally pour Godโs love and quality time into their marriages and families.
โAs much as Iโm trying to reach out to men,โ Sam says, โI need to look within my family and ask how Iโm directing my son and loving my wife as Christ loved the Church. Itโs important to realize this is where it all starts.โ
Henry and his wife spent a majority of their first six months of their marriage apart as he needed to prepare their transition to the U.S. before she arrived. While this wasnโt easy, he recognizes how being discipled has encouraged him as a leader in his family.
โThrough discipleship, I wanted to focus on how to really love my wife, to understand and know her,โ Henry says. โIโm learning how to lead, serve, and provide, especially as we welcomed our first child.โ
Changing Your Habits Through Scripture Memory
Galatians 2:20 is one of Samโs favorite Scriptures that he memorized through The Navigators Topical Memory System (TMS). Memorizing Scripture became a catalyst for his spiritual growth through being discipled by Noblemen. It changed the way he spent his time around what matters most.
โWhen I memorized Scripture and meditated upon it,โ Sam says, โIโd be in situations and realize through Scriptures, This is what God is telling me!
Sam started picking up the TMS verse cards whenever he had a free moment. The more he did this, the more energized he became about growing in Christ and even sharing these Scriptures with others. This changed some former habits.
โWhen I have free time, Iโm looking at my TMS,โ Sam says. โI used to look at my phone or even social media. Now, I want to look at my TMS and memorize Scripture.โ
Starting Spiritual Conversations With Your Co-Worker
Being discipled through Noblemen challenged Sam to take the first step in starting conversations about faith even when heโs scared. While working, he felt the nudge of the Holy Spirit to ask his co-worker about his faith. They had talked before, but never about Christianity.
โI directly asked if he was a Christian,โ Sam says. โWeโre very direct in Kenya, which is different from discipleship in the U.S. He said he was a Christian, but hadnโt been to church in a while. This gave me the opportunity to invite him to a Bible study. Itโs encouraging to continue asking him questions when we meet at work.โ
Sam sees how taking the first step will easily lead to the next because the Holy Spirit will give you the words to speak.
Even though Sam and Henry currently live in Georgia, they still find intentional time for discipleship conversations with young men in Kenya via technology. They both desire to follow Godโs lead after they finish their studies, but could see themselves back in Kenya and sharing Jesus in the workplace there.
โBeing a public health specialist,โ Henry says, I could find myself anywhere. I want to be a Christian in the marketplace and show it through my life. Through that there might be an opportunity to speak to someone and introduce them to Christ. You never know who that person will be someday and who they may reach. They may reach thousands.โ
Discipleship Tip:
All you need are index cards and your Bible to get started today. Look up your favorite verses and write them out on index cards with a topic on the top. Tape one of the verse cards to your mirror so at morning and night you can memorize it.